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Virgo Lovers “The Virgin”

Virgo lovers keep their passions on a tight reign, but you are not quite as pure as one might think.

You don’t make a big production of your sensuality, and have a reputation for being rather modest.

Yet, in the bedroom, you exhibit your innate earthy side.

You may find it difficult to fully relax and enjoy yourself when making love.

Your perfectionist nature can be a challenge when it comes to intimacy as you tend to be critical of yourself and your partner.

However, your manual dexterity and attention to detail make you a skillful lover.

Neatness and hygiene are important to you, so you expect your partner to be squeaky clean.

You also prefer an environment that is free of clutter and distractions.

The demands of work and family sometimes diminish your passion, but the cooling trend is usually only temporary.

The Virgo Man

The Virgo man is a sensitive and sensuous creature.

You have a deep respect for women and are drawn to those who exhibit a vivacious nature.

You detest emotional scenes and tantrums, and you find it challenging to express your own feelings.

You are discerning when it comes to the choice of a mate and the one you choose has to measure up to very high standards.

You reject any suggestion of coarseness, or careless conduct in a woman.

You can be quite demanding and critical, and romance is not your strong point.

Yet, in the early light of dawn, you will still be there.

You have loads of pent-up sensuality.

As a lover, you have simple tastes. You’re direct in your approach and what she sees is what she gets.

Quality is your style rather than glitter, and the right woman will be rewarded with rich and memorable passion.

The Virgo Woman

As a Virgo woman, you may appear remote and unreachable, but once the layers of your deep sensitivity are revealed, you are warm and responsive in intimacy.

Emotions scare you a little, but you have a great capacity for loving.

Your amorous nature blossoms within the safe boundaries of true love.

When you feel secure, you lose all inhibitions and adore pleasing your man.

You can be extravagantly sensual, and endlessly willing to experiment with anything that heightens ecstasy.

You want to be won over, pleased, and fulfilled.

You’re at your happiest with a partner who gifts you with unconditional love and loyalty.

Turn-on’s in Virgo Relationships:

According to Starsky and Cox, authors of Sextrology, Virgo romance is characterized by the following turn-ons:

• older, experienced lovers
• submission
• handcuffs
• teasing
• role-play
•toys and gadgets
• massages
• tantric techniques



Tradition sees the entire universe as consisting of the elements fire, air, water and earth.

When we apply this system to personalities, the elements represent certain basic traits and give a certain “temperament”.

This varies according to the emphasis of the elements in the horoscope. Any placement of planets or personal points in a sign constitutes an emphasis.

The four elements can be regarded as four basic principles of life.

These can be applied to all sorts of things through the principles of similarity and analogy.

C.G. Jung has opened the door to a modern understanding of these categories by developing a system of types, in which the elements correspond to four basic functions of the psyche.

The emphasis or non-emphasis of the elements in the individual horoscope reveals fundamental aspects of the personality.


People with a strong emphasis of the fire element are spontaneous and impulsive, they apply their energies wholeheartedly. Their emotional response is quick and they have a lively imagination.

Fire signs: Aries, Leo and Sagittarius


Airy people are quick and animated. They apply their energies in very diverse ways. They tend to intellectualize their feelings and expectations.

Air signs: Libra, Aquarius, Gemini


People with a strongly emphasized water element are feeling types and are very sensitive. Their imaginative and emotional lives are deep and rich.

Water signs: Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces


Earthy people react quietly and slowly. They apply themselves with endurance. Emotionally they are deeply rooted and slow to change.

Earth signs: Capricorn, Taurus, Virgo



Virgo and Fire Signs (Aries, Leo, Sagittarius)
Fire / Earth relationships tend to be challenging, but fire signs are often the people you are most attracted to.

You have an intrinsic understanding of the inner workings and motivations of fire signs and are sympathetic to their needs.

You will often go out of your way to help them – especially when they need practical assistance.

Fiery people are more interested in spontaneous, creative expression and may often resist being ‘organized’ by you.

They may even feel smothered or restricted by your attempts to put their lives in order.

♥ Virgo and Earth Signs (Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn)
Earth signs are your astrological brothers and sisters.

You share a feeling of affinity and see eye to eye, but Virgo love matches with Earth signs can become rather dull and predictable.

There is little in the way of challenge or stimulation to be found.

Chances are that you’re getting along better with Capricorns than with Taureans, as some Taureans can be a little too materialistic or stubborn for your liking.

♥ Virgo and Water Signs (Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces)
Potentially, Virgo love matches with Water signs are the most comfortable and harmonious.

Water signs can help you get in touch with your emotions.

When you’re around them, you feel as if you have permission to relax, be yourself and express your feelings.

You are especially compatible with Cancerians and Scorpios.

Pisces is your polar opposite sign. Opposites attract and you are therefore fascinated by Pisceans, and they by you.

Pisceans can transport you to a magical place of dreams, filled with romance, beauty and unconditional love.

On the other hand, they can drive you crazy because they are so disorganized and impossible to pin down.

Virgo and Air Signs (Gemini, Libra, Aquarius)
Air signs will push your buttons, annoy you, pester and irritate you in a million different ways, but you can learn a lot from them if you’re willing to pay attention.

While you are self-aware and multi-talented, you are challenged by relationships.

Conflicts with airy people in your life will teach you about other people and yourself.

Geminis, Librans and Aquarians can show you how to interact with others.

You also have more in common with them than you think.

Just like you, they prefer to maintain their independence when they’re involved in a relationship.

They just find it much easier to interact in social situations than you do.

Famous Personalities with the Sun in Virgo

•  Agatha Christie, born September 15, 1890
•  Sean Connery, born August 25, 1930
• Elvis Costello, born August 25, 1954•
• Stephen Fry, born August 24, 1957
• Greta Garbo, born September 18, 1905
• Richard Gere, born August 31, 1949
• Hugh Grant, born September 9, 1960
• Tommy Lee Jones, born September 15, 1946
• D.H. Lawrence, born September 11, 1885
• Sophia Loren, born September 20, 1934
• Jesse Owens, born September 12, 1913
• Dorothy Parker, born August 22, 1893
• Peter Sellers, born September 8, 1925
• Charlie Sheen, born September 3, 1965
• Raquel Welch, born September 5, 1940

Sources: Healing Love Notesastro.com 

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